No Shame in a Scar

God winks often to me in the posts of others on Facebook. You can often see into the heart of a person by what they post. 

A friend of mine posted this picture of a lioness with a scar on her face with the quote from an unknown author. Many responded to this picture that I also shared. It seems we all have scars that often control us rather than us controlling how we view them. I am thankful for this reminder, because I too have physical, surgical scars. I have emotional scars as well from various trials of life, but God has healed my heart. Those scars remain as a reminder of God’s healing, grace, love, and care. God helps me be stronger than what caused the scar. 

Another story involves scars that heal; the story of the cross. Jesus' scars remained even after his resurrection to remind us He arose and is stronger than those who tried to hurt Him. His scars demonstrate His love for us and offer a story of redemption (John 3:16). 

I'd like to share a story of a friend from high school, Jackie Janning. Her story may resonate with many of us who have been touched by cancer personally or a close family member or friend. I trust you will be encouraged and that her story will be a “God wink” as you read. You are a beautiful child of God and He loves you scars and all!! 

“About eight years ago, I was shopping with my mom looking at dresses for a special event. I remember trying on a beautiful dress that I loved, but it exposed the scar from my chemotherapy port. I asked mom if she thought I could cover the port scar with makeup without too much trouble. To this day, her response rings in my ears --- 'why would you ever want to do that, you should be proud of that scar.' And that my friends, is why I share this post with all of you. Love ya Mom!” -- Jackie Janning-Lask

by Joni Ormsbee